THE BIG REVEAL...MY DAUGHTER'S NEW DIGS
Well, literally after a lot of blood,
sweat and tears
we moved my daughter into her new home for the next nine months.
I quickly came to realize it is quite different to move a girl into a dorm room.
sweat and tears
we moved my daughter into her new home for the next nine months.
I quickly came to realize it is quite different to move a girl into a dorm room.
We were given a limited amount of time to pull up in the fire lane
to unload her belongings onto a pile at the curb of her dormitory
and then go park the cars (plural in our case) in another location.to unload her belongings onto a pile at the curb of her dormitory
Right away we began to get a
sense of which students
were the minimalists
and which liked their "stuff".
Can you guess which my daughter is???
I thought I was going to get
the lecture when my husband
started looking around at the piles of belongings
from the boys on either side of us.
Eeeek, I knew her collection was going to be more plentiful,
but I wasn't expecting it to look
like Mount Kilimanjaro.
Thank goodness some other
females pulled up.
That certainly saved me the lecture.
I think I only got as far as the "look".
I quickly diffused the situation,
"Look Meghan, she has the same green Britta water pitcher as you!!"
Only girls would color coordinate their water pitcher to their room.
I'm going to bet college guys could care less about stuff like that.
The only green things they're probably going to be drinking
out of are beer bottles.
Needless to say, after enduring
many trips up the steps
with my daughter's worldly posessions, patiently waiting in long lines
for the elevator with filled carts
and making small talk with
all the other parents,
we made our way to her room.
Then all the fun began.............
Imagine 8 people in a 150 square
foot room for 8 hours
trying to put 2 girls worldly possessions piled
as high as...you got it,
Mount Kilimanjaro, away in some kind
of neat manner, let alone decorated,
was no small feat.
Remember, we had just met her roommate
& her family upon entering this space.
Making this all come together was hard,
especially knowing at the end of this task
my husband and I would be saying
goodbye to our daughter for quite sometime,
severing the bond we worked
for 18 years to strengthen.
I'm sure my daughter was trying
to keep it all together,
acting like this was all just an ordinary day.
The longest the 3 of us had
ever been apart was the
5 days she spent in Disney
World on her Senior Trip.
Here she was, just thrust into
this space with a person
she had never met before
(other than Facebook)
and was now going to be living
with for the next 9 months.
Oh yes, talk about a presure cooker!!
Here's how it all turned out
I love that she packed her stuffed dog
that has been her lifelong friend
and the backup one!
Taking that all into consideration,
I'd say it all turned out okay.
Wouldn't you?
Did any of you take your
children off to college?
I'd love to hear your stories.
I'm sure I'm not alone!!
(My apologies on the quality of the photos,
they were taken on my cell phone)
I'd say it all turned out okay.
Wouldn't you?
Did any of you take your
children off to college?
I'd love to hear your stories.
I'm sure I'm not alone!!
(My apologies on the quality of the photos,
they were taken on my cell phone)
Comments
Kate
Oh what a traumatic but exciting time. It doesn't quite work like that here. Our kids go to university but it is all local (of course unless you go interstate which only a few do) or if they have a "GAP" year which we always planned for our first son but at the last minute he didn't want to and doesn't regret it (think it would have been good for him though). However, in the next 2-3 weeks he is moving out of home and into a house with 5 others. Not far away but I will miss him. He is 20 now and more than ready but wonder how many times he will move back home over the years. It is a big rench isn't it but one we have prepared them all for for so long - it's just hard for us when the time comes. I think you all did a great job on her room too.
I wish you the best and I'm thinking about you.
xo
It looks beautiful, filled with a Mom & Dad's love and hard work! Meghan must be thrilled. Amm my best, you must be so proud of her! Hang in there, she will be fine! Will be thinking of you my friend!
Big hug,
Mimi
I hope the trip home wasn't too painful for you Lovey....!
Cheers for now,
Tamarah :o)